Everything i know about dating i learned through surfing

She left you an emotional voice mail when you forgot to respond to her text one time…This girl is crazy right? It is desperate, and makes the girl think: Something must be wrong with him she’ll think. But NEVER should he want her so much that he’ll start putting her on a pedestal and start valuing her over himself and his own life.

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I will show you what no other article would ever dare show you for free: It’s like a nice billboard advertisement it gets your attention but it doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll buy the product. The woman may still answer your calls and let you take her out, but that is simply because she enjoys free stuff. Very few men know this, and the rich guy who worked his tail off for the sole purpose of attracting women through power cannot even comprehend this fact.

The media has done a great job at making you believe in the erroneous assumption that money and six pack abs is the path to get your dream girl. If you spend too much money on a woman or do too many favors for her, you are subtly telling her that your pocketbook is ALL YOU HAVE TO OFFER.

When you use money to take a woman out to nice dinners and to buy her gifts too early in the relationship, the woman will begin to think the man is trying to BUY her affection. And if she actually likes this then my advice to men is: RUN!

Personality is the key to being good with women and dating. Deep down, women are attracted to your personality more-so than any other trait of a man.

Yes, it’s what women want, but it’s not what they .

And I am not suggesting that you go completely 180 right now and turn into an arrogant jerk either. Deep down in there is the soft chewy center of a man.

Believe it or not, women hate being put on a pedestal!

When you put women on pedestals, you see them as an overly valued commodity and not as a regular human being, which further pushes her away and into the arms of another man who respects himself.

Over 1.3 million people every year have died in a car accident whereas not one person has died from saying “hello” to a girl. See, once you know and understand the kinds of personality traits that attract women, then you focus on cultivating those traits in yourself. or did I just make that up 😉Women want men who will change the world around them and men who change the world take massive action and What women really love is a guy that has ambitions and goals in life.

Get in touch with your adventurous side and make an effort to develop your sense of humor, self confidence and social skills. Failure is also good because you learn from it and then it becomes SUCCESS. Remember, it’s all a learning experience and your on your journey to becoming the best version of yourself. A man who goes for his dreams and lives purposefully is also a man with the power to allure.

The more you improve yourself, the more high quality women will be interested in you. When you are with a woman, you are not in court trying to prove your case why this girl belongs with you okay. Women won’t tell you this but they actually prefer it this way. Women want a challenge since it makes you stand out unlike the rest of all the other men who have the scarcity mentality, they chase, they put her on a pedestal thus they bore her to death. Look, attraction isn’t something you decide upon—it’s an uncontrollable reaction to the right qualities. I’ve spoken with many very attractive women who are in relationships and married and most of them said at first they didn’t like their current boyfriend/husband when they first met. It may seem annoying at first, but the end result will be either you get the girl you want or you don’t and nothing more or less. Go after what you want in life and don’t let anything stop you. You must become a man who knows who he is, knows what he wants, and knows that he has the determination to get there. Maybe your mission is to just enjoy life to the fullest.

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