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Nearly everybody considers sexual intercourse or oral sex to be cheating, but there are some other behaviors that fall into grayer areas.

Survey takers guessed that twice as many people are having extramarital affairs as really are, estimating that 44 percent of married men and 36 percent of married women are unfaithful.

The reality is it's not as rampant as we think, with 28 percent of married men and 18 percent of married women admitting to having a sexual liaison, the survey found.

For men with money, infidelity is just another perk. Men want more sex (44 percent), more satisfying sex (38 percent) and variety (40 percent), findings that closely resemble the 2006 MSNBC.com/Elle magazine survey on monogamy.

Among men making more than $300,000 a year, 32 percent report cheating, compared to 21 percent of men making less than $35,000 a year. “Wealthy men may simply have more dating opportunities than men with less income,” says David Frederick, a psychologist at the University of California, Los Angeles, who helped analyze the survey findings. “Mostly I’ve cheated because of the excitement,” writes a 38-year-old man who took the survey.

The survey did find some common scenarios, however.

Cheating tends to happen well into the relationship — especially in the three- to five-year zone — by a man who is dissatisfied with his sex life or a woman who feels emotionally deprived.“Men are more threatened sexually by the sense of competition and comparison; women are more threatened by the loss of the emotional intimacy,” says Leiblum.“Whenever there is an affair there’s a sense of competitiveness with the third party.The study found that 22 percent of married men and 15 percent of married women have cheated at least once — similar to the results from the MSNBC.com/i Village survey.Still, much of this depends on your definition of cheating.An unexpected 7 percent of women and 9 percent of men cheated while there was a baby under the age of 2 in the home.

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